According to Dennis P. Kimbro, life is 10% of what happens to us and 90% of how we react to it. In our lives, we undergo through many moments and experiences which may leave us close-minded, open-minded, bitter, happy and many more other feelings; but it all depends on ones individuality on how they go through these moments and come out of them.
My life has been a series of ups and downs, happy moments and sad moments which have all contributed to shaping my existence and personality. These moments have made me have different views and perspectives on how to handle life. They have shaped my character for the better as well as for, the worse. If I were to write about my life, it would not be enough to fit in a book. Some experiences are worth not being written down. Nevertheless, there are a series of main passages in my life that have contributed mainly to who I am. My teenage hood, my transition from high school to college and my first ever love, were my key passages in life.
Being a child is the best stage one could have ever undergone. Being a kid can be one of the most fun parts of your life. But once childhood is gone, u cant go back. If I were to go back to being a kid, I would not think twice. I had the most memorable childhood one could ever experience. I had no worry at all, knowing everything would be done for me. I could be irresponsible, carefree, and reckless and people would not mind.
The day teenage hood knocked on my life door: thats when my life took a turn for the worse. My character changed from good to worse, my lifestyle, personality name it all took a turn for the worse. Lee Maracle quoted that teenage-hood was a crippling disease, and indeed, it had become my disease. One transits physically and psychologically. All these, I underwent and became a stranger to my own family. I became a know-it-all, rude, aggressive teenager who did listen to anyone. I would fight with everyone in the family from my parents to my siblings and would never admit to my wrongdoings. I was ever the problem whenever something happened but to me, I ever thought that my family was just unfair.
I didnt take heed to any advice I was given; little did I know, the rough path I was going down, would have huge consequences for me. A compelling time it was and a fascinating place it was to be. I had my best and worst moments during the stage but who cared at that moment, I was, and I felt immortal.My transition from high school to college was another passage of my life that had a huge impact in my life. I had been born and raised in a small town where everyone knew everyone. I attended the local primary and high school. Having been admitted to one of the leading colleges in the country was a big surprise to me. I was excited and terrified at the same time. I was moving from a small town to the countrys capital. This was my first ever time to experience a culture shock. Wikipedia website describes a culture shock as an experience a person may have when one moves to a cultural environment which if different from ones own.
Moving from a small town where everything was organized, cultured and conserved to a big city, where I knew nobody, was hard to adjust to. Having to attend classes with hundreds of students, sharing a room with an unknown person was terrifying. My most difficult experience was to make new friends with people I had sworn I would not ever talk to in my life due to the peculiarity of their behaviors, was difficult. I was a stranger even to myself. My freshman year was a hectic one. I was trying to find my place in the big world of our college.
Love is an ever-evolving challenge for most of us. We love to love, and seemingly never tire of searching for, researching and debating, and arguing the true meaning of love. We all have experienced love, and we can ascertain that teenage love is one of the most interesting things one could undergo.
My first ever love, got me unaware. I wasnt ready nor had I planned for it and when I encountered it, I drowned wholly in it. Despite my parents warning me against my first love, I paid no attention. Nothing could ever come between us: we were invincible. Well, nothing lasts forever, I ended up heartbroken. Well, that was teenage love; it wasnt true, nor like, nor lust nor infatuation.
One of my favorite quotes is by Albert Einstein, the only source of knowledge is experience. Our life moments, some can be difficult to relive for they are filled with regrets but what we take are the teachings we acquire from them. My key passages in my life came with numerous experiences which had tremendous values in my life. My teenage hood taught me to be more responsible for my actions for what goes around comes around. I learned to own up my mistakes and accept that I could never be right always. This made me more accepting of other peoples opinions, and if I were to become a parent, I would be more supporting and tolerant to my kids.
My freshman year taught me to be open-minded and that we all came from different backgrounds. We have been raised differently thus we all had different views and perspectives about life. What I could value, would not be the same to what another person would value. We could never be the same. College life broadens my mind to different ways on how to view life. At times, it was better to make your path rather than following a trodden path. Just as said in the poem, The Road Not Taken by Robert Frost.
First loves have huge impacts on our lives. They change how we look our love life for the rest of our lives. Is it love or merely a sick attachment? My first love taught me how to differentiate between true love and toxic relationships. Nothing could ever be in black and white. It was an eye-opening experience. I learned how to stand up for myself. I learned that I had a voice of my own, and that respect was a two-way path. Everyone deserved to be happy, and an individual chose their happiness.
Michelle Obama quoted, At the end of the day, when it comes to time to make that decision, as president, all you have, to guide you, are your values and your vision, and the life experiences that make you whoever you are. This does not have to apply to the president only, but to everyone. My experiences have made me who I am. They have shaped my character in both the positive and negative ways.
I became principled, following what I value and what I envision. I rarely get swayed unless otherwise. I am open-minded and more accepting towards people whom I considered to have different values from me rather than shunning away from them. I became less trusting when it came to love, and this made me have trust issues.
All in all, I did not let my experiences drive me to the extremes. I consider that they made me a better person than whom I was in the past. Just as Eleanor Roosevelt quoted, The purpose of life is to live it, to taste experiences to the utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear for newer and richer experiences, and I believe thats what I am doing.
APPLICATION PROJECT 2
Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy Website defines moral responsibility as when a person performs or fails to perform a morally significant action, we sometimes think that a particular land of response is warranted, praise or blame are perhaps the most obvious forms this reaction may take.
The psychological explanation for the pervasiveness of self-deception is that most people find it easier (and in most cases it is easier, in the short run) to engage in self-deception than to take responsibility for their wrongdoing and wrongdoing involves blaming ones self and feeling guilty while acknowledging character shortcomings causes feeling of shame.
Evaluating myself on my performance as a morally responsible member, I can ascertain that I am an averagely morally responsible member. Being a principled person, I tend to stick to my values and the principles and rules that make up the content of my morals. My conscience would not let me go against my instilled values and morals. However, if I happen to go against my morals, I end up feeling guilty. Though at times, it can be difficult to own up to my wrongdoings. Self-deception is one of my most tempting vices. A large number of times, I have been tempted to use self-deception to evade my moral responsibilities. It always seems an easier path
When self-deception is used systematically to evade moral responsibility, it is a principal moral vice; it not only keeps people from taking the morally desirable steps that would bring a resolution to the problems caused by their wrongdoings as others are concerned but also blocks whatever motivation for reform they might otherwise have.
Ignorance as well is another constant temptation. Ignorance is not merely an excusing condition that mitigates ones responsibility. Rather, that ignorance is also a type of epistemic and cognitive failing.
I tend to excuse my ignorance instead of dealing with my wrongdoings and try to act better. Nevertheless, I try as much as possible to act my part as a morally responsible group member by trying to keep my degree of moral responsibility as high as possible despite the few setbacks I have.
Behavior as defined by Oxford Dictionaries Website, the way which one acts or conducts oneself, especially towards others. The behaviors vary from one person to another. Human behaviors are mainly influenced by the moods they are in, the people they surround themselves with and the things that have happened in their lives. Some of these behaviors might be temporary since they might have been as a result of an individual undergoing a certain phase in his/her life but others are permanent. Some of the behaviors can be accepted in society while others are unacceptable.
The behavior that I demonstrate depends on where I am and with whom. I can show certain behaviors to a certain group of people and different behaviors to another different group of people, as well as the environment that I could be in.
I am a bossy type of person who likes to order people around. This depends on the person I might be with. If the person seems easy to boss, then I would boss them, but if they seem difficult to boss, then I would not try to boss them. Therefore, I am a domineering person who is always constantly controlling people, and thats if I am familiar with that person. I am an introvert. I tend to keep most of the things to myself making me a secretive person. I rarely share my secrets with anyone. I am a shy person when it comes to unfamiliar people or grounds. I tend to be ambitious desiring to succeed in everything I do and on rare days I can be volatile.
There are quite a number of behaviors that I would need to develop. Such as being an extrovert. I realize that, at times, I miss out on important things in my life due to my introvert behavior. With being an extrovert, I would stop being shy and develop the confidence to talk easily to people who I am unfamiliar with. I need to develop the behavior of being conscientious because I am ever in a hurry to finish things which I end up to do wrongly as well as developing a cooperative behavior in me. Due most of the times, when it comes to group, I always want to do things my way and on my own.
Developing a behavior can be easy or not depending on ones self. Changing a behavior on the other side can be quite difficult and might take longer than if one is developing a new behavior. One I would gather information on the behavior I would want to develop, what could trigger the development of the behavior and the consequences of having that behavior. Then develop a plan on how I could develop such behavior. This could include setting goals for me that I would want to achieve. For instance, if being an extrovert is what I want, then I would set goals that would help me become an extrovert....
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